I think there are many men who want their girlfriends to wear costumes and enjoy a different impression from usual.
However, she doesn't like it and won't wear it.
Even when he wears it, he doesn't like it, so it's not that exciting...
This means that although I was looking forward to her wearing it and giving me a different impression than usual, it ends up being a complete bust.
However, this isn't because he has a physical aversion to her wearing it, but rather because he just doesn't know how to enjoy it yet.
This time, I would like to tell you about some costumes that will make your usually reluctant girlfriend happy to wear, and some magic techniques to make her enjoy wearing them.
- Let's make her happy even though she doesn't like cosplay just because of the image!
- How to deal with a girl who is obsessed with cleanliness and doesn't like the idea of other people wearing her clothes
- Consider her feelings when she doesn't want to wear it! How to get her to wear it willingly with words
- Summary
Let's make her happy even though she doesn't like cosplay just because of the image!
First of all, she hates wearing"image"I think that wearing a costume is a strong"Weird things" "Things strange people do"The image of "it's too extreme" is spreading, and on the other hand,"Worn by nerds"That's the only image I have.
Such"Image-driven girlfriend"There are two recommended methods:
Take advantage of the events everyone is attending!
this is,"Halloween Party","Christmas Party"This is a way to participate in events where there are many other women participating.
In such a situation, casual clothes will stand out, and if she is the type who cares about others, she will naturally pursue cosplay.
As they enjoy the event, it would be nice to gradually change into more sexy outfits so that they realize that wearing costumes is fun.
What's even more important is that while you should of course enjoy attending these events, don't forget to compliment her too.
First, try out cute and pretty things.
Among the reluctant girlfriends, there may be some who are introverted and don't want to participate in events like the one mentioned above. In that case, it might be a good idea to start by trying to enjoy something a little different from usual.
For example, if you go to Chinatown, you can try on a Chinese dress. You can try out something like that, or go on a trip to Kyoto and try being a maiko... Another way to start is to give her something simple, like a hat or hair accessory with her favorite animal or character in mind.
How to deal with a girl who is obsessed with cleanliness and doesn't like the idea of other people wearing her clothes
In the past, costumes were often expensive and many were difficult to afford.
Therefore, it could only be enjoyed in places that rented costumes, such as karaoke bars and love hotels.I want you to wear it!"Even if you ask them to do so, they may be reluctant because of the image it gives of being unhygienic.
Of course, there are women who don't like that in itself."It looks cheap" "I'm worried about the hygiene"I'm sure there are many people who think this way.
For such a girlfriend who is a germaphobe or has anxiety, prepare a costume just for her. Recently, there are many inexpensive and cute ones on the market. The average price is around 4000 yen, so you can enjoy it casually.
Consider her feelings when she doesn't want to wear it! How to get her to wear it willingly with words
The results of our own investigation"She hates wearing costumes."But there was one thing that stood out."Interest in me" x "The other person's sexual preferences"That is the point.
There may be quite a few men who want to come as a sexual preference, but many of them just want to try it out. They just want to experience a different atmosphere than usual.
However, women seem to be afraid that if they wear it once, they will be forced to wear it forever, and that it will change into something more intense.
And I'm worried that I'll be forced to wear these kinds of outfits because I've lost interest in her.
The best way to get your reluctant girlfriend to wear it is to dispel those feelings.
hereThe Law of "Praise" and "Feeling Special"We will be sharing this information with you.
First, get them to wear it by complimenting them.
No one, male or female, dislikes being complimented.
However, it is said that there is a big difference between how to compliment a man and how to compliment a woman.
First, the points that women want to be praised for are:"Your hair is beautiful" "You look like a cat and are so cute"From such points,"Bunny ears that will highlight your beautiful hair.","Cat-inspired costume"This leads to...
Also, when passing"I think it suits you!"Don't forget to say that!
What is the most important thing she pays attention to when she wears it?"Sexual preference"I'm worried that she is making me wear it because our relationship has become stale.
To dispel such fears,"She hates it."This is one way to make them happy.
And once she puts on the costume, it becomes second nature to her to continue wearing it.
Summary
There may be some women who absolutely cannot tolerate it due to physiological reasons, but the majority of women"Embarrassing"Such thoughts and"I wonder what my boyfriend thinks..."I think you understand now that this is the problem.
In other words, "Atmosphere and follow-up"I think it will be possible to change her dislike of it. Here are some of the reviews:
Suddenly from him"Try this outfit on."The moment he said that,"eh?"I felt a bit embarrassed and didn't know what to do... But when I finally mustered up the courage to wear it, it didn't look cheap and it's something I can't usually wear, so I got excited.
Of course, the type of costume is important, but I also think it's important that it doesn't look cheap when you come. Now, I've been buying them again and again, expanding my variety and even enjoying the makeup.
I wanted to have a surprise party with my girlfriend on Christmas, so I bought her a reindeer costume. But I thought it would be lonely to be a reindeer, so I bought her a Santa costume. I was a little nervous about how she would react, but she said it was surprisingly cute and wore it. It was our fifth Christmas party, and it was a night like no other, and we have fond memories of it.
Why not come and enjoy a fun, cute and sexy time that's different from usual?
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